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So, I twisted my ankle, yet again, and have been laid up a bit for the past week.  No, I wasn&#8217;t bungie jumping, or sky-diving.  I slipped on water on the kitchen floor.  Off to the Drs office for xrays.  No brake, just a severe spraign.  And not as bad as the last one 2 [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=therealstorie.wordpress.com&blog=1985054&post=164&subd=therealstorie&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>So, I twisted my ankle, yet again, and have been laid up a bit for the past week.  No, I wasn&#8217;t bungie jumping, or sky-diving.  I slipped on water on the kitchen floor.  Off to the Drs office for xrays.  No brake, just a severe spraign.  And not as bad as the last one 2 years ago, that resulted in 8 weeks of PT.</p>
<p>The day before I was sitting on my couch with my leg elevated, really quite mad about everything.  I wish I could say that I was singing praises to God, and just so thankful for this time down.  But no.  I was frustrated.  I was impatient.  I like to do things myself.  I don&#8217;t want to run on other&#8217;s time clocks.</p>
<p>My sweet husband was trying to give me a pep talk about how I could still do so much.  that is was &#8220;just an ankle&#8221;  I was venting that I couldn&#8217;t do this, couldn&#8217;t do that&#8230;yadayada ya da&#8230;.</p>
<p>&#8220;I just want to go for a run!!&#8221; I burst out in frustration.</p>
<p>So you know what he did?  He pumped up my tahiti and put it into the pool.  He tied it to one end of the pool, helped me get in, and handed me the paddle.   </p>
<p>You should of seen it&#8230;I was paddling like mad.  I was talking it over with God that sometimes this is exactly how I feel:  Like I work so hard, and get nowhere!!  After about 20 minutes, I lay back in the tahiti and sunned myself.  I did feel better.</p>
<p>The next day I began to thank God for what I had.  Because, truly, I have so much.</p>
<p>I had a wedding to attend a few days later.  I managed to hobble around on my crutches.  But I was a little uneasy because I had to have my daughters do everything for me.  I didn&#8217;t get to dance, and I couldn&#8217;t very easily mingle.  I felt kind of useless.</p>
<p>Then there came the daddy-daughter dance. It stirred emotions deep within me so much that I had to get up and go give the mother of the bride (a dear long-time friend of mine) a hug.</p>
<p>As we were hugging, she whispered in my ear, &#8220;We wouldn&#8217;t be here as a family, if it weren&#8217;t for how God used you in our lives.&#8221;</p>
<p>In that very moment, I was brought to my knees in humility.  Tears filled my eyes as we embraced eachother.  Later that night, the father of the bride, also a dear friend of my husband and myself, approached me to say thank you.</p>
<p>Little did I know that in that season 10 years prior would God use me to uplift this couple in one of the most difficult challenges of their marraige.</p>
<p>If he can use me, he can use any of us that are willing to be used and motivated by LOVE.</p>
<p><a href="http://actionsspeakloudest.blogspot.com/2008/08/choices.html"></a></p>
<p>We can all make a difference, one moment, one day, one person, one couple, one child, at a time.</p>
<p> Do you believe that your life can make a difference?</p>
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